Finding the balance between work and life is hard for anyone. But when it comes to motherhood, finding that balance is harder than ever. I was told as a child that I could be whatever I wanted to be, as long as I put my mind to it. At first, I wanted to work at…
Rule Breakers or Makers: Finding Your Path to Publishing
There is no “right” path to publishing; there is only your path. I’m still walking on my path, so I write this to new writers from the perspective of someone who was and is still standing in your exact spot.
Where do you find the time?
We don’t find the time. We’re not living in a video game where time is a prize hovering around in shiny orbs, waiting for us to collect and stockpile. Moms Who Write are just like any other dedicated professionals who are working towards a dream. We don’t find time– we make it.
Instagram as an author branding tool
You’re going to make mistakes and you’re going to be uncomfortable. It’s always that way when you step out of your comfort zone! But don’t let it stop you. You have to start if you’re going to learn.
When to use Passive vs Active voice
One of the most common issues I have come across while beta reading is the use of passive voice in places it shouldn’t be. Passive voice can sound wordy and unclear. But what is passive voice and how do you know when you’re using it?
Conformity: The death of creativity
As a child growing up, I loved art. I still do. I create in a variety of ways from sewing and painting, to doing hair and writing. Too often when people find out about my hobbies, they say I could never do that — and that might be true. Their creativity was taught out of…
Instagram features that you may not be using
Instagram is deceptively simple. Post to feed, post to stories. Hashtags and voilá! If only it were that easy! There are some crazy helpful features/tips that you may not be using.
The worst type of critic
No matter which critics you encounter on your path, there is a silver lining to be found. Let the nasty comments fuel the fire that makes you write. Let the constructive piece of criticism make you better than you were. Find the reasons why you want to write. Remember them. Recite them often.
My house is a mess
My child’s needs trump my own. They come first and they depend on us. For 95% of the time, it’s all about them. What we choose to do with the other 5% is critical. That’s the time meant for us to fill our cups so that we can have something to give to our families. So, what will we do with that time: clean or create? This varies and that’s the balancing part.